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Anxiety doesn’t always announce itself, it can arrive as a racing heart, a tight chest, or a flood of thoughts that won’t slow down. Whether it’s triggered by a stressful moment or simmering beneath the surface, anxiety affects how we think, feel, and function. But here’s the good news: one of the most effective tools for calming anxiety is something you already have with you—your breath.

Breathing exercises are simple, science-backed techniques that help regulate the nervous system and restore a sense of calm. They’re fast, free, and accessible to everyone, from toddlers to teachers, caregivers to community leaders. In just a few minutes, intentional breathing can shift your body out of “fight or flight” and into a state of safety and ease.

When we feel anxious, our body activates the sympathetic nervous system, the part responsible for the stress response. This leads to shallow breathing, increased heart rate, and heightened alertness. It’s a survival mechanism, but when it’s constantly triggered, it can wear us down.

Breathing exercises activate the parasympathetic nervous system, which helps the body rest, digest, and recover. Deep, slow breaths signal to the brain that we’re safe. This lowers cortisol (the stress hormone), slows the heart rate, and relaxes muscles. In short: breathing helps the body remember how to feel calm.

Each of these techniques can be practiced anywhere, at your desk, in a classroom, during a break, or before bed. They’re especially helpful in trauma-informed environments where emotional regulation is key.

This foundational technique engages the diaphragm to promote full, deep breaths.

How to try it:

• Sit or lie down comfortably.
• Place one hand on your chest and one on your belly.
• Inhale slowly through your nose, letting your belly rise.
• Exhale gently through your mouth, feeling your belly fall.
• Repeat for 3–5 minutes.

This method reduces physical tension and helps regulate emotional responses.

Used by athletes and first responders, box breathing builds focus and calm through rhythm.

How to try it:

• Inhale through your nose for 4 seconds.
• Hold your breath for 4 seconds.
• Exhale through your mouth for 4 seconds.
• Hold again for 4 seconds.
• Repeat for 4–6 cycles.

This technique is ideal for moments of high stress or overstimulation.

This method slows the breath and promotes relaxation, especially before sleep.

How to try it:

• Inhale through your nose for 4 seconds.
• Hold your breath for 7 seconds.
• Exhale slowly through your mouth for 8 seconds.
• Repeat for 4 cycles.

It’s a favorite among therapists and sleep specialists for its calming effects.

Rooted in yogic tradition, this technique balances energy and soothes the mind.

How to try it:

• Use your thumb to close your right nostril.
• Inhale through your left nostril.
• Close your left nostril with your ring finger and exhale through the right.
• Inhale through the right, then switch again.
• Continue for 1–2 minutes.

This method is especially grounding and can help reduce emotional reactivity.

This technique involves breathing at a steady pace—typically 5–6 breaths per minute.

How to try it:

• Inhale for 5 seconds.
• Exhale for 5 seconds.
• Continue for 5–10 minutes.

It’s often used in biofeedback therapy and trauma recovery to stabilize the nervous system.

In trauma-informed environments—like your daycare center—breathing exercises can be a powerful tool for co-regulation. Modeling calm breathing helps children learn to self-regulate. For staff, it offers a moment of pause and emotional reset. For families, it’s a strategy they can use at home to support their child’s emotional development.

Consider integrating breathing breaks into daily routines:

• Morning circle time
• Transitions between activities
• Before nap or quiet time
• During moments of conflict or dysregulation

Even a few deep breaths can shift the tone of a room and restore a sense of safety.

Breathing exercises aren’t just wellness trends—they’re essential tools for emotional resilience. They offer a way to pause, reflect, and reconnect with the present moment. Whether you’re navigating a tough conversation, supporting a child through big feelings, or simply trying to get through the day, your breath is a reliable companion.

Try one of these techniques today. Notice how your body responds. And remember: calm is just a breath away.

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